Well, what is the term for the lines on the internal hex? The "reverse flats" if you will. Some of us non-mechanic types don't know the terms.
I talked to a local shop to see if I could get in that day and have him take it out for me. He couldn't get me in, but gave some advice. Among them was to not use heat, as that can cause damage too, like it could explode (his words). I'd do it with the fill removed, but he's a wise old codger and I decided that, since I don't have a blowtorch anyhow that I wasn't going to heat it.
Heat is the only thing I have not done. I tried everything else, failed, found a different way to drain, and gave up on the bolt.