Mercedes has some TSB floating around that ATF+4 is acceptable in transmissions that call for NAG-1 and some other trannies, too.
The reason you don't see ATF+4 more widely advertised is because of Chrysler's silly, psychotic licensing program. They go overboard by not only dictating the ingredients, but also the suppliers (A group III base from one of three suppliers, plus a special Lubrizol add pack). Most other ATF specs are more reasonable.
Maxlife should be fine in your Ram, as would any ATF+4. I like Smitty's ATF+4. It meets the ATF+4 standards but doesn't go through Chrysler's nonsense.