You know, this reminds me, when I changed the plugs on the little Civic a while back, cylinder #4 seemed to feel like it has the makings of being cross-threaded already. It felt like it was over-torqued before. To describe it, I was counting how many complete revoltions I could make the plug turn by hand until it started completely seating, though not snug, and then use no bigger than a 3/8 socket attached to turn it with a general ratcheting motion until it feels like it would need some effort/force to get tighter. At that point, I perform no greater than a 1/2 turn and I'm finished. Not all of my weight, but a small amount of strong arming it for a 1/4-1/2 turn only.
By the way, I do this with the engine cold or having sat for a very long time(8+ hours), at least. I did the same thing for each plug/cylinder and #4 was the only one to 'feel' weird. It wouldn't surprise me if it needs to be worked on eventually, I did apply anti-seize for the first time, FWIW. This may have altered my previous spark plug removal/replacement experiences. I'm still new at it and it wouldn't surprise me if I goofed up somehow. I generally make sure I start them by hand at the right angle so I don't cross-thread them, but I suppose it's possible I may have begun to strip the threads on a previous app. I just don't think I did anything wrong this time, and it felt like a pre-existing condition at cylinder #4, I had put Bosch into the car, but found out later the compatibility issues(especially with the VX) and a mechanic threw in some NGKs for $15, so I said w/e go ahead. So, this was only the 2nd time I've touched the plugs on the Civic. The call for replacement every 30,000 though they may make it longer under some circumstances.