Barlow-
Don't worry yourself about getting to the fill hole, just fill through the dipstick hole. It takes maybe 30- 40 seconds for the entire quart to disappear into the tranny, no big deal.
Use whatever fluid you want that will make you sleep well. I mean, it wouldn't make sense for you to use Red Line or Amsoil and then worry constantly about it, that would be counter-productive. It will be good thing for your tranny even if you decide on the Z-1, getting fresh fluid in there is never a bad thing.
When doing back to back drain and fills it's usually better to actually drive the car for a bit, purposely going through all the gears. Going for a 10 minute drive will mix it good.
Good luck~