Originally Posted By: Adam_in_NH
Originally Posted By: Gabe
Conventional oil doesn't go 9,000 miles. Sorry.
Car ownership requires some basic knowledge - like tire pressure, what oil to use, ect. You should have checked the owners' manual for the correct oil if you were not sure. Otherwise, you should have changed at a reasonable interval.
I did check the owner's manual. I tells owners to follow the mileage minder. I always used the correct oil which is 5W-20. The manual says I can use a synthetic but the dealer did not give me that option. I expressed my concerns about the excessively long OCIs but he insisted that was normal.
Hi Adam. It sounds like you followed the owner's manual to a "T", so as far as I'm concerned Honda should be holding the bag on this one. Here is a short story about my only experience with the 3.5L V6.
My wife and I owned a 2008 Accord with the 3.5L VCM V-6 engine. We purchased it about a year and a half ago from a local dealer. Retired couple owned it previously, dealer serviced, lots of highway trips for winter vacations...seemed like a great pre-owned car. Service manager told me the same thing, change the oil when the computer tells you to. After a few months I discovered that the car consumed about 1 quart of oil every 1500 miles - enough to be annoying, but not enough to qualify for warranty work. I shrugged it off and just added oil as necessary...until the engine fouled a spark plug from oil consumption in that cylinder. Honda replaced the plugs under warranty, and said we were good to go. In preparation of changing the oil I did some research on the 3.5L and oil consumption. I was wondering if a thicker oil would help, but instead I found the thread on this site with the Odessey engine full of varnish. I pulled a valve cover off our engine and was horrified at the amount of dark brown varnish, in a few spots it was heavy enough that I considered it sludge. I cleaned what I could, and put everything back together.
Following the advice of a member on this site, I added a pint of "Kreen" to the oil and drove the car for two weeks or so before changing the oil. I was horrified at the amount of [censored] in the oil filter, but at least things looked better through the oil fill hole. I refilled the oil with Rotella 10w30 and drove the car like I stole it for the next month or so. When the oil turned black as coal after about 6 weeks, I changed it again with more 10w30. That time the oil stayed clean for months, and wasn't consumed as quickly.
I intended to switch back to 5w20 and go to a 5k OCI before this winter, but last month we ended up swapping the Honda for a 2010 Chevy Tahoe. When we switched our son to a full-size carseat and started hauling the stroller around, the Accord just didn't have the room we wanted. After all the issues we had with it my wife crossed Honda off her list for good...which says a lot considering it was her third Accord.
My short story got kind of long winded...good luck with getting your Pilot repaired.