I was not talking about killing the ECM, but interrupting the signal that goes to the ECM, like from the ignition switch, or from ECM to the injectors.You don't want to un-power your ECM each time - you will loose all your stored settings like fuel trims, etc.
You should be able to kill off something else easy enough- Starter solenoid seems like the easiest, and most affective. No crank, no go.