My cousin married a succubus who fails at work but is "good at shopping". They bought a duplex so her parents could be next door, ok, I guess, but then rented their existing house to some "friend" who always had drama about rent. They finally kicked the friend out and are /were short sale-ing with the bank.
She went on Facebook to complain about the stress of not knowing when the bank was going to call her back to close the deal, of her walking away from the place!
Of course they trade in every few years for new cars because they need something reliable for the children.
Debt's crushing her and making her "stressed out" (and eating bon-bons staying home not working), but she goes to baby yoga, paint n' me, make-your-own-ceramic-coffee-mug and, yup, they have a timeshare! In the same stinkin' state they live in, so they can go home and get the mail!
My other idiot relative, this one on the wife's side, traded an Infiniti Isuzu Trooper, with a balance, on a Subauru Trifecta, didn't pay that off, and rolled this mess into another Subaru when the middle Subaru had bald tires and needed brakes, at 75k. "Because of the children", of course.