Why would tire/road noise be louder? It should be the same as before, unless if you buy louder tires or remove sound deadner.
I would be quite happy is all I heard was tire noise. It means less total noise hitting my ears. More silence. More peaceful.
We're talking about fun driving. When I drove my first Tesla in 2014, a new S85, I was excited. My expectations were high. In 2014 it was 100k for that car. But tearing around was rather dull. Tesla got me as close to how deaf people feel in a quick car as possible.
I was missing what I wasn't hearing and not liking what I was hearing. The tire noise, wind noise, and every little pebble that got tossed into a wheel well. These were now the dominant sounds. I prefer other noises. I would still consider buying something like a Model 3 performance if it was a really good value because I consider the electric experience kind of a novelty.