303 Aerospace Protectant. Problem with silicone grease and sprays is that silicone really attracts dust and grime. This can transfer to your clothes when entering/exiting your vehicle if used on the EPDM weatherstripping (inside doors, trunks). On exterior weatherstripping (around windows), it can help to prematurely age the rubber. This is from grime attraction and UV magnification, and silicone stripping the protective wax from in rubber. This is why some people's weatherstripping turns gray after repeated use of gloss enhancing, silicone laden protectants. This is also why they have a lot of problems with the rubber becoming dry and brittle.
303 Protectant contains a very powerful sunscreen, therefore eliminating the problem with UV light and graying of rubber. It also won't attract dust/grime. You can read a lot more on auto rubber care on 303's website at
http://www.303products.com/main.php?infopage=techfacts.
Then read through the volumes they have listed. Very good info.
303 Protectant can be found at RV and boat centers, or ordered on line. I pay about $15 for 16 oz at a local RV center, and the bottle has lasted over a year.
Another product very similar to 303 is Lexol Vinylex. It is cheaper than 303 and I can find it at Pep Boys. But it leaves slightly more of a gloss (but nowhere near "shiny") compared to 303's matte or Satin finish. I prefer 303's finish, but it is personal preference.
Neither product has the wet weather durability of silicone products, but the protection is still there when appearance is diminished. And the parts treated return to being black after a car wash. I reapply 303 every 30-45 days.
More info about these types of products can be found at
www.autopia.org in the forums. Excellent info about detailing cars there from very knowledgeable, and oftentimes professional detailers.
Hope this helps.
Dave