Well, there's merit to your view, JS .. I would say that trivial things may evolve to non-trivial things and I'd say that the term trivial is in the eye of the beholder. Sure, there were "concessions" to be made that would have avoided this whole overblown affair. Most of us that have given up on high standards are used to them and treat the as "par for the course". Our standards are becoming substandard. These are concessions of convenience ...and defile and defy any sense of principle. We might as well take any of the shrouds off of any sense of propriety in everything we do ..just because it's all just a fraud ..and illusion of something that we're supposed to aspire to.
So ..cheat, lie, do a half-(blank) job ..it's okay ..you're not expected to be civil and adhere to any of societies standards in terms of conduct or integrity. Don't get annoyed ...don't object ..don't bother. Just let it continue to decay and keep navigating around it ..jumping through hoops to assure that you don't get inconvenienced.
(visions of Will Smith in I Robot- "Now the last thing you need is a old dead guy stinking up your lobby ...but seeing as you got one
I'll just go do my "cop thing".)
That is, the hindsight quarterbacking is all fine and good. Even our loved/loathed hero/villain will admit to hindsight second guessing himself...but seeing as he was in that situation and decided to take exception to it ..he just did his "I'm not wrong" thing. The court appeared to agree.
Sure it's easier to just shrug and move on. Is there some requirement to do that just because 8 out of 10 can put up with it? No one seems to see anything wrong with putting up with whatever "it" is. Further more, they end up on seeing anything wrong with the substandard or dysfunctional state to begin with.
Complacency and appeasement are the enablers of social decay. When it gets worse, thank yourself for your tolerance and passive endorsement of it. Assume the impotent posture in all things since they yield you no ROI. It's good social conditioning for otherwise intolerable conditions.
I'm not saying that I don't tend to do this too ..but I'm not going to call it a desired thing. It's practical in view of the prevailing defects in things. Again, appearing to decompensate since you don't cope with obvious defects. You're always expected to field the lame curve balls that misfits and defectives show in typical behaviors. If you don't/can't ..you're then the defective.
(I'm expanding the scope of such attitudes for demonstrative purposes - ie. I'm making it sound much harsher).