Guess I shouldn't be too smug as I'll be in that situation shortly.
Found spouse was seeing a coworker on the sly (hiding texts and phone from me for no reason...well there was a reason, which I just found out last night).
I wasn't angry. She's done this years ago with another buddy of mine and claims it's my fault since I "don't listen enough".
That led to an engagement being cancelled.
This time was the same old excuses...I'm sorry if after 18 years together I'm not pawing at you like we're 20 again.
She claims that if I like, she'll stop seeing the guy (co-worker btw). I said that I cannot nor will not attempt to police her texts and life, nor will I attempt to make her choose b/t me and other dude (who also has a GF).
From the excitement in her texts to her female friend, they seem very into each other...or at least she is into him.
The guy is about 15 years her junior (strapping fella too).
I wish her the best in winning him over with her 20 something wardrobe and Taylor Swift musical score. I'm sure somewhere in Tay-Tay's library she's written and performed something about break-ups and meeting someone new.
If she can't win him over, oh well.
Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice....
Anyone in the market for an IS350 or BMW e30?
No....but seriously, I need to sell them!