Originally Posted by Yah-Tah-Hey
Originally Posted by Lubener
Originally Posted by Lolvoguy
To request that certain members of family not be permitted to a funeral service?
Or in cases like this, do some just request to not have a service at all?
...just wondering. No particular reason I suppose.
I see nothing wrong with it and to honor the wishes of the departed.The funeral business is the biggest scam there is.The funeral home won't make much money from me. I have specified and want no visitation and a basic gravesite service for immediate family members only. No hearse. I want to be loaded into MY pickup and driven to the cemetery by a family member. If family or friends only want to gather at funerals, I don't want them around when I am laid out.
You are my kind of guy Lube. I want wife/executor to take ashes to cemetery and dump them at the headstone. Preferably at night with a good breeze. Don't want exec to have to pay funeral home for interring ashes in a vault. Why is a vault required for ashes in an urn? So that mortuary can make the big $$$ that's why. You are so right about funeral business being a "scam." They have influential lobbyist. An alternate interment would be someone taking a post hole digger and placing ashes/urn whatever in the plot. Another alternate which I think is the best is for wife/exec is to dig a hole in our garden. I just can't see paying out the $$$ to have someone dig a hole, set a vault(what a joke) and place ashes in it. Even Billy the Kid had to use a gun. The funeral homes do provide a needed service, but the cost is way out of hand. It shouldn't cost 8/15 thousand dollars to put a corpse/ashes in the ground. Regards.
It's apparent you know nothing about rules and regulation of the funeral and cemetery business
Funeral homes don't control what's required for burial
The cemetery controls what happens on their property.
Vaults are only required if the cemetery requires it.
And as far as cost being out of hand, show me a business that doesn't work to make a decent profit and I'll show you an out of business sign. I've worked in funeral service for 20 years and you'd be amazed at what it cost to operate a good FH
Originally Posted by Lubener
Originally Posted by Lolvoguy
To request that certain members of family not be permitted to a funeral service?
Or in cases like this, do some just request to not have a service at all?
...just wondering. No particular reason I suppose.
I see nothing wrong with it and to honor the wishes of the departed.The funeral business is the biggest scam there is.The funeral home won't make much money from me. I have specified and want no visitation and a basic gravesite service for immediate family members only. No hearse. I want to be loaded into MY pickup and driven to the cemetery by a family member. If family or friends only want to gather at funerals, I don't want them around when I am laid out.
You are my kind of guy Lube. I want wife/executor to take ashes to cemetery and dump them at the headstone. Preferably at night with a good breeze. Don't want exec to have to pay funeral home for interring ashes in a vault. Why is a vault required for ashes in an urn? So that mortuary can make the big $$$ that's why. You are so right about funeral business being a "scam." They have influential lobbyist. An alternate interment would be someone taking a post hole digger and placing ashes/urn whatever in the plot. Another alternate which I think is the best is for wife/exec is to dig a hole in our garden. I just can't see paying out the $$$ to have someone dig a hole, set a vault(what a joke) and place ashes in it. Even Billy the Kid had to use a gun. The funeral homes do provide a needed service, but the cost is way out of hand. It shouldn't cost 8/15 thousand dollars to put a corpse/ashes in the ground. Regards.
It's apparent you know nothing about rules and regulation of the funeral and cemetery business
Funeral homes don't control what's required for burial
The cemetery controls what happens on their property.
Vaults are only required if the cemetery requires it.
And as far as cost being out of hand, show me a business that doesn't work to make a decent profit and I'll show you an out of business sign. I've worked in funeral service for 20 years and you'd be amazed at what it cost to operate a good FH