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Worst relationship you've ever been in #5444660 06/02/20 01:58 PM
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My first real relationship was with a girl in HS. Met her in the 12th grade and she stalked me.
Silly me I thought it was cute, and played the "hard to get" type, flirting etc. with her and other females.

Fast forward to after HS finished, I came to realize her mother instructed I was not allowed to have any of my own friends.
All my spare time had to be spent with her daughter, and I couldn't do anything without the GF and her mother's approval
(cars, jobs, friends etc.). Came to realize they were "conditioning" me to be a slave to the daughter just like her dad's position.


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Re: Worst relationship you've ever been in [Re: Lolvoguy] #5444670 06/02/20 02:11 PM
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I 'dated' a co-worker. Like anyone else will tell you, it's a baaaad idea.

Re: Worst relationship you've ever been in [Re: Lolvoguy] #5444672 06/02/20 02:14 PM
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Worst?
That one is easy. It was during 3 years of heavy drug use in early 80's as a drummer in heavy metal band in San Francisco Bay Area.
No need to go to details on this one smile


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Re: Worst relationship you've ever been in [Re: Lolvoguy] #5444680 06/02/20 02:20 PM
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It took me a long time to realize that my wife had borderline personality disorder. I was made to feel everything was my fault.

Last edited by Donald; 06/02/20 02:30 PM.

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Re: Worst relationship you've ever been in [Re: Donald] #5444685 06/02/20 02:31 PM
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Originally Posted by Donald
It took me a long time to realize that my wife had borderline personality disorder. I was made to feel everything was my fault.


Sounds like a lot. How many did you marry/divorce?

Re: Worst relationship you've ever been in [Re: diyjake] #5444689 06/02/20 02:36 PM
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Originally Posted by diyjake
Originally Posted by Donald
It took me a long time to realize that my wife had borderline personality disorder. I was made to feel everything was my fault.


Sounds like a lot. How many did you marry/divorce?


More than one. I will leave it at that.

But happily married today. Needed to find the right woman.


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Re: Worst relationship you've ever been in [Re: Lolvoguy] #5444693 06/02/20 02:45 PM
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The one I'm in now. It got better, married 10 years this August.


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Re: Worst relationship you've ever been in [Re: Lolvoguy] #5444737 06/02/20 03:31 PM
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Re: Worst relationship you've ever been in [Re: Lolvoguy] #5444750 06/02/20 03:52 PM
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Well... I’ve really only had 2 real relationships, first one cheated on me, and I married the 2nd one after knocking her up while she was still in high school (like the last 4 weeks of her senior year) whistle

Very very happily married though. I’d do it all over again if I was forced too. Got 2 amazing boys now, and while I do work a lot (45-55 hours a week) it allows for her to stay at home and raise them and us to live comfortably.


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Re: Worst relationship you've ever been in [Re: Lolvoguy] #5444752 06/02/20 03:55 PM
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I dated the daughter of [censored].


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Re: Worst relationship you've ever been in [Re: Lolvoguy] #5444755 06/02/20 04:02 PM
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My wife and I both had horrible first marriages. Second time was the charm for us.


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Re: Worst relationship you've ever been in [Re: Lolvoguy] #5444758 06/02/20 04:07 PM
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Re: Worst relationship you've ever been in [Re: Lolvoguy] #5444763 06/02/20 04:18 PM
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'82 Monte Carlo Diesel. Left me stranded/needed towing 3 months into the relationship and every 18 months afterwards. We separated after only 65K miles.

Re: Worst relationship you've ever been in [Re: Lolvoguy] #5444797 06/02/20 05:20 PM
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Four years of marriage to first wife. Going on 47 years with second wife and it has been great. No regrets.


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Re: Worst relationship you've ever been in [Re: Lolvoguy] #5444805 06/02/20 05:28 PM
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My wife's best friend. Not as raunchy as it sounds. We had a mutual break-up at her house. Five minutes later I met the one. We have been together for 26 years.

It has NOT been the easy. Certain family members fanned the flames of discontent and we both had our own issues that came from our upbringinings and our bad decisions.

Thanks to a healthy decline in sex drive and mutual expectations, everything is humming along.

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