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I was brought up that higher education is always a betterment and pursue at all costs. I also grew up in Massachusetts in the "5 College" area. UMass, Smith College, Hampshire College, Amherst, and Mount Holyoke. In high school I was a horrible student; baseball! Didn't work out that way. I pitched over 200 innings at age 15. Arm was done at 16/17 and I had sooo much to relearn that I didn't pay attention too.
Short of it, I finished undergrad with a 3.6 and went to grad school right away and i completed my MPA in a year (plus a summer class) with a 4.0. My graduate degree did help me take care of my family. I was able to have a Monday - Friday schedule for 12 of my 20 years a cop. I did contracts, grants, property, resolutions (still hate them), etc... My kids are 8, 12, and 14 so it made a crucial difference. For the last 5 years it has been just me, no mom, and the kids. I have been on the road "In the Bag" as it's called and my do I love it!
While I'm grateful for everything life has given me I do realize instead of pursuing MPA I should have gone directly for the JD!! Now I'm 47 and have a large home and 3 very active kids. Two boys are 120-140 baseball games a year; basketball is year round on 3 teams each boy; daughter is basketball and dance and piano too. Hard decision to get the JD or take it easy and work part time.
I don't think turning down education is ever a good idea. If it means being in debt for the rest of your life, well then it's a crap shoot.
Short of it, I finished undergrad with a 3.6 and went to grad school right away and i completed my MPA in a year (plus a summer class) with a 4.0. My graduate degree did help me take care of my family. I was able to have a Monday - Friday schedule for 12 of my 20 years a cop. I did contracts, grants, property, resolutions (still hate them), etc... My kids are 8, 12, and 14 so it made a crucial difference. For the last 5 years it has been just me, no mom, and the kids. I have been on the road "In the Bag" as it's called and my do I love it!
While I'm grateful for everything life has given me I do realize instead of pursuing MPA I should have gone directly for the JD!! Now I'm 47 and have a large home and 3 very active kids. Two boys are 120-140 baseball games a year; basketball is year round on 3 teams each boy; daughter is basketball and dance and piano too. Hard decision to get the JD or take it easy and work part time.
I don't think turning down education is ever a good idea. If it means being in debt for the rest of your life, well then it's a crap shoot.