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Erased... #5261976 11/08/19 05:56 PM
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July 18th,came home from work to find that the family had moved out during the day....no chance to represent myself to the kids...just gone, and an absolute disaster zone leftin their wake, including mcdonald's wrappers from their eating while moving, and kitty litter and cat-faeces on the floor where they took the litter trays.

Since then...I've been erased, less than 20 hours contact with the kids over 5 occasions...no picking upphonecalls, and returning texts...zilch.

rememerbed enough about me to make the child support claim (fair enough, they aremykids), but used the fact that I had provided "zero primary care" to benefit.

Most interaction with my kids in the last month has been a bill, with their name on it...framed it, as it's another life milestone.

Just a heads up gang, your life can change so quickly...

Anyway, It's Movember in Oz, where guys grow a Mo and raise money for mens health...I've cleared the dial,and am growing a Mo to raise money for men's mental health.

[Linked Image from cdn.movember.com]

Have raised $545 (Oz dollars) in 4 days, so do have a wide range of supporters ($150 is pledged against me growing the goatee back, LOL).

Anyone interested,I'll PM them the link (will approach the mods about posting the link directly).


If it's the truth....it can handle the pressure !!!
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Sorry to hear that.

What is a mo?


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Re: Erased... [Re: Shannow] #5261988 11/08/19 06:04 PM
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Sheesh.

Hang tough!


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Re: Erased... [Re: rsylvstr] #5261989 11/08/19 06:04 PM
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Originally Posted by rsylvstr
What is a mo?


Mohawk? Mustache?

Re: Erased... [Re: Shannow] #5261990 11/08/19 06:06 PM
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Moustache...


If it's the truth....it can handle the pressure !!!
Re: Erased... [Re: Shannow] #5261993 11/08/19 06:07 PM
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Originally Posted by Shannow
July 18th,came home from work to find that the family had moved out during the day....no chance to represent myself to the kids...just gone, and an absolute disaster zone leftin their wake, including mcdonald's wrappers from their eating while moving, and kitty litter and cat-faeces on the floor where they took the litter trays.





Sorry to hear about your situation. Whatever happened to "Till death do us part"?

So common today that when things get the slightest bit difficult or strained people just up and leave! Disgraceful. I hope you get to see your children again soon!
I would imagine the court would force your wife to let you see them!

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Sorry to hear, Steve. Hope things work out somehow in the end.

Stay strong.


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So sorry to hear this man.

Just remember you have many people thinking of you and wishing the best.

Re: Erased... [Re: Shannow] #5262012 11/08/19 06:28 PM
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I am so sorry my friend. ???


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sorry to hear about your situation cry

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Sorry.


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Originally Posted by Shannow
Moustache...



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Man. Really sorry to hear that.

Do you want your wife back?


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What made her have a 'Scorched Earth' attitude towards you ?

Hope you work things out.

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I hope you are getting some professional assistance adjusting to your bad situation. It's the manly thing to do.

There IS light at the end of the tunnel.

Take care.

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