TO THE YOUNGER FOLKS HERE: Don't work your life away! All things in moderation.
Please do not do what I did and don't make the mistakes I made (work way too much for too long, no free time) . I've been very successful, saved money, own an airplane, and I've had fun (at work) , taken risks and survived. But what I did not count on was rapidly deteriorating health. I can't do anything anymore. I'm tired beyond belief, and nothing works. All that work and savings, for what? So I can suffer with a full bank account? I can't do any of the things I like.
1)
Have children. I did not, boss recognized that I could work anytime, anywhere (to his advantage) . If you are childless, your boss will take advantage of your time too. Note: you will be insufficiently compensated, as it will be expected.
2)
Limit your hours. If you are competent and implement good practices, and regularly can't finish a task in time, it's up to management to provide support. The same applies to self employment. MANAGE YOUR TIME and get help when you need it.
3)
Time is the whole of your capital. Recognize the extreme value (cost) of your free time.
4)
Take your vacation time and sick time, as soon as you can. It has a magical way of evaporating.
5)
Don't be afraid to change jobs (appropriately of course) . Always keep feelers out.
6)
Go home on time and come in a touch early. You need no excuse to do so. Don't stay an extra minute unless absolutely necessary.
I came really close to checking out a couple of years ago. I was working away from home both times, and all I could think about was how stupid I was to be working so hard. And how useless all that work was. Nobody on their death bed is glad they worked so much. I missed out on life itself. Don't do that.
Here is NOT ME:
Here I am: