Thanks for the comments guys
To clarify and avoid confusion, what I am lookig for is:
A small/mid-size SUV-ish vehicle with some ground clearence and AWD or 4WD. (I don't need to off road or tow a lot BUT if there's is lockable 4WD modes, and not just auto/on-demand/slip'n grip type, i will consider it a bonus).
This is to REPLACE the 236k mile Elantra. This will be an extra car for bad weather days, and also some hiking trips, etc etc. Sort of a "new" extra/beater car but this time I need some utility and mild off road capability.
I don't NEED luxury items/features in it, BUT if it has them, again, I will take them.
So my small range of vehicles I am considering:
2001 - 2007 Ford Escape AWD (heavier and larger since 2007)
2001 - 2004 Nissan Pathfinder 4WD (way too big since 2005)
2003 - 2005 Subaru Forester XS or higher trim (avoiding the base model X), esp IF the head gaskets have already been replaced. (avoiding 2006 and after due to lame soccer mom facelift)
Wonder if I should add late years of Jeep Cherokee (NOT GRAND Cherokee) XJ(?) to this list.... thoughts? how comfortable are they for LONG trips?
(I briefly considered Suzuki Grand Vitaara and Isuzu Rodeo, but feels like too risky due to those manufacturers not operating in the US anymore.)