Originally Posted by NYEngineer
Yep. I choose not to fight most battles. She'll see one day after I kick the bucket all the behind the scenes stuff I do to keep things running smoothly so she can glide through life.
NYEngineer...I understand exactly and sympathise...it's the same here...exactly the same...I wear a worker bee amulet around my neck to remind me every day, and have an affirmational poster next to the bed (photo below).
Word of advice 'though...don't do this...
One day my wife found me marking up the inside rubbish bin with a sharpie, and I started hacking into it with an exacto knife.
When Quizzed, I responded that I was cutting a slot in it, to make her life much more convenient.
Instead of buying all that stuff and storing ut in the fridge while we wait for it to rot enough to throw out, or speeding the process as you've described on the floor, she could just slide $20s through the slot into the bin, and not even have to travel to the store, lug all that stuff around, stock the fridge, clean the fridge, or the floor.
Didn't go down well, but was worth it.
I swear that I won't be taken notice of until the day the credit card stops working.