If your Toyotas take cartridge filters, my choice would be Mahle. If they take the spin-on cans, use Wix XP/Napa Platinum. If the spin-on can is a shorty, you can upsize to the 57145XP (Napa 47145)
The OEM Honda A02 filter from the dealer is Fram. But since you don't like them, use Wix XP. The non-XP cartridge for newer Hondas (57356) has a very dinky media cartridge and will not last 10k and definitely not 12k! The M1 filters are also good.