Originally Posted by SOHCman
From a perspective of multiple decades using Nikon gear, don't waste your time with the "kit" and the poor lenses that come with the kit.
Just get the body you can afford, and one good quality lens like the 50mm F1.4 prime lens. This is an inexpensive lens that is incredible in low light (at F1.4) and will give you professional results.
Well the standard kit lense is the 18-55 which is a somewhat limited range. Gets decent reviews though, but I stopped using it when I got the 18-105mm, the popular one now is the 18-140mm. The 18-200mm is also popular but a bit more money and some don't like it as it has compromises with that large a range.
The refurbs are also a pretty good deal. I've just been getting the d5x00 line. Usually the refurbs have between 1-1000 pictures on them and when the shutter is good for 100,000+, that's very low mileage for a decent price cut. Sometimes they have decent deals around black friday, but not always.
My main lenses are the 18-105 and the Sigma 10-20mm. Have the 70-300mm, 55-200, 35mm 1.8, and a couple others but those two are the main ones and I hardly ever use the other ones. The external flash is probably the other main item I use.