Anyone who has spent sometime on this forum must have understood that there is no such thing as the perfect oil or perfect base stock. Group I/dino, PAO, ester, Mobil 1, Pennzoil Platinum, German Castrol, Pennzoil Yellow Bottle, etc. are all superior in some ways and inferior in other ways. Don't expect the oil you buy, whichever brand it is, to outperform some other oil in all ways without being inferior in some other ways, no matter how expensive it is. This is because like everything in life, blending an oil is a compromise.
The primary goal of a synthetic oil is to extend the OCI and keep the engine clean. If there is a
small compromise in wear while achieving that, this is entirely acceptable, as most people won't drive their cars 500,000 miles and can live with their car lasting 450,000 miles instead of 500,000 miles. Of course, if the compromise is not small, like what was seen with Mobil 1 UOAs ten years ago, then it matters.
Most recent M1 UOAs show good wear protection. If someone actually spent many hours and averaged all UOAs on BITOG, would M1 still show a statistically significant amount of more iron than other oils? Would M1 EP show a statistically significant amount of more iron than M1? Chances are that it could. However, do you really care if the overall wear rate is still highly acceptable? Do you really care about 15 ppm vs. 10 ppm iron?
The increased wear concerns by esters in nothing new. You can Google many sources. Here is an excerpt from ExxonMobil's 2013 syntehic-oil formulation guide:
This is from their 2017 synthetic-base-stock guide:
Springer Handbook of Petroleum Technology -- Chang Samuel Hsu and Paul R. Robinson (2017):
Synthetics, mineral oils, and bio-based lubricants -- chemistry and technology -- Leslie R. Rudnick -- second edition (2013):
Again, this is just nitpicking. This is exactly why people visit this site. Why do you think the OP bothered to ask the question whether he/she should use Amsoil XL or Mobil 1 EP? They are both good oils.