I'm a MB dealer tech, and would strongly suggest running the 15w40 HDEO. The M103 is a very durable engine, but a valve job is not unexpected after 150K miles due to the bronze guides, as well as the mentioned head gasket oil leaks. Service it every 7500mi with an OE, Mann, Mahle, or Hengst filter, and it will serve you well for a very, very long time.