Recent Topics
Relationship between VI and VII
by OilUzer
04/24/18 01:39 AM
News in Kansas
by Marco620
04/24/18 12:11 AM
Amsoil EAO 80 Cut Open (26500 miles)
by A310
04/23/18 11:29 PM
1965 Buda D175 Rotella 15W40
by A310
04/23/18 11:16 PM
So... kinda mad at Ford right now!
by SubieRubyRoo
04/23/18 10:20 PM
Mopar MO-349, 6k miles - C&P
by webfors
04/23/18 08:50 PM
2005 Accord V6 Steering Wobble (low speed only)
by JEL01
04/23/18 08:34 PM
EcoTec Filter suggestions?
by GMWeber
04/23/18 08:21 PM
Occasional brake noise??
by blupupher
04/23/18 08:11 PM
Ford Duratec 2.5L - 5w-20 vs 5w-30?
by dogememe
04/23/18 08:03 PM
New tires quicker to feather?
by supton
04/23/18 07:38 PM
mc fl500S CUT OPEN
by car51
04/23/18 07:34 PM
ACDelco UPF 64 CUT OPEN
by car51
04/23/18 07:26 PM
New Rotellas.. late to the game ...
by webfors
04/23/18 07:23 PM
2012 Ram 2500 Diesel Balljoints
by Bighorn2500
04/23/18 07:21 PM
Pennzoil Synthetic 19.97
by Marco620
04/23/18 07:07 PM
Received Pennzoil Rebate Check
by klt1986
04/23/18 07:02 PM
Any electrical engineers here?
by Reddy45
04/23/18 06:31 PM
Debating an engine weight for Q50 RedSport
by BullittGT
04/23/18 06:29 PM
Why Less Love For Mobil 1 ?
by ChrisD46
04/23/18 05:50 PM
Newest Members
vvillarr, initialjc, rickpa1, CoolShirtDude, Gee_Luva
64829 Registered Users
Who's Online
24 registered (Crispysea, 1WildPig, DeafBrad, Cornershop, ctechbob, 2 invisible), 588 Guests and 37 Spiders online.
Key: Admin, Global Mod, Mod
Forum Stats
64829 Members
68 Forums
282233 Topics
4711844 Posts

Max Online: 3590 @ 01/24/17 08:07 PM
Donate to BITOG
Page 1 of 3 1 2 3 >
Topic Options
#4713681 - 04/01/18 10:46 PM When its your time its your time!
Chris142 Offline


Registered: 06/05/03
Posts: 16528
Loc: Deplorable in apple valley, ca
About 10 yrs ago my boss hired a younger guy at the shop. Iirc he was about 12 yrs younger than me. Would make him 37ish.

We were not real friendly. He was very arrogant. He worked with us about a year. So I ignored him most of the time.

He had a massive heart attack last week and passed away! Kinda makes ya think, am I next?

Top
#4713689 - 04/01/18 11:00 PM Re: When its your time its your time! [Re: Chris142]
Kira Offline


Registered: 08/19/10
Posts: 4893
Loc: Champlain/Hudson Valley
He just plain died. What would that have to do with your "time to go"?

I worked with a guy who'd say of your friend, "His room was ready".

Fretting an early demise? Don't be a bump on a log, DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.

Get in shape (or better shape), eat smarter, quit smoking etc. Get a thorough check up.

"Gosh gee willakers, am I next?" is NOT the way to look at this.

Top
#4713698 - 04/01/18 11:10 PM Re: When its your time its your time! [Re: Chris142]
Chris142 Offline


Registered: 06/05/03
Posts: 16528
Loc: Deplorable in apple valley, ca
Sometimes you just don't know. My barber had a brain aneurysm. No symptoms just went home and died.
_________________________
02 Wrangler super-s 10w30
87 F250 proline 15w40
04 Tahoe super-s 10w30
Z400 Lucas 10w30
KLR250 Maxima 10w40
Can am maveric edge 5w40
57 case tractor 15w40

Top
#4713709 - 04/01/18 11:27 PM Re: When its your time its your time! [Re: Chris142]
JohnnyJohnson Offline


Registered: 10/22/09
Posts: 2384
Loc: Wet side WA
Chris at 74 I've seen a lot of them come and a lot of them go. I don't worry about it a lot. I don't smoke and I drink moderately. I do watch my weight (162) and I workout 4 to 6 days a week. Two of those days include weights. My BP is 117/73 my resting heart rate is around 73. I'm going to be here until I'm not. My plan is to stay as long as I have a quality of life. No one leaves the planet alive unless you're an astronaut!


Edited by JohnnyJohnson (04/01/18 11:28 PM)
_________________________
2004 Toyota Corolla 119727
Out: QSUD 5W-30 Purolator One 5030
In: Valvoline ML 5w-30 TG4967 117530 2-8-18
2006 Duramax 73752
Out: T6 5W-40 M1-303
In: T6 5W-40 XG9100 73752 4-22-18

Top
#4713712 - 04/01/18 11:31 PM Re: When its your time its your time! [Re: Chris142]
Linctex Offline


Registered: 12/31/16
Posts: 5714
Loc: Waco, TX
Harold Lunzman lived to be 94 years old and smoked filterless Pall Malls the entire time I knew him.
His wife, Lydia Lunzman, lived to be 91. She smoked filtered cigs, I forget what brand.

Why did they live into their 90's?
---------------------------

When I was in high school, an 18 year old classmate of mine whose father was 38 was at National Guard duty one weekend. They were playing some 3-on-3 basketball, and he fell dead on the basketball court.

The other guys thought he was joking around. He wasn't.
He never smoked in his life, and wasn't a drinker, either.

Why did he die at 38?
_________________________
"The evidence demands a verdict".
(Re:VOA)"it's nearly impossible to actually know the particular additives that are in there at what concentrations."

Top
#4713714 - 04/01/18 11:33 PM Re: When its your time its your time! [Re: Chris142]
pandus13 Offline


Registered: 08/12/11
Posts: 2886
Loc: Chicago,IL,USA
I think what Kira told is make the best of life with what you have. And get into your head to do your best to even the odds.

I thought you where just married 1-1.5 years ago.

If I where your wife, I would slap you hard than hug you.

You are here now. What you have done until now, what all your family before you has come to now.

Learn from the past,
Live in the now
Prepare for good and bad for the future.
_________________________
16 Golf SportWagen
13 Mazda5
08 Yaris
04 Elantra
95 accent
95 mystique
97 concorde

Top
#4713721 - 04/02/18 12:15 AM Re: When its your time its your time! [Re: Linctex]
bbhero Offline


Registered: 03/20/15
Posts: 4388
Loc: Virginia
I agree 1000% Linctex.

In my position guys I have seen all kinds of circumstances that made 0 sense to me... Try explaining to a family or patient why something has happened the way it has... Very, very, very, hard. Sometimes things happen for no good reason and there is no easy answer. I knew of a 17 yr old fella that was diagnosed with a very rare blood disease. He passed away a year later. Made ZERO sense. He obviously had done nothing to bring that on. Yet it happened. Bad genetics?? Ok yeah maybe. But none of his family had anything remotely like that ever happen to them.

Many, many, many people in this world want an easy answer to circumstances that happen. Yet there are numerous times where there is no easy answer available to be found. There's a country song by Reba that goes, "what do say at a moment like this, when you can't find the words to tell it like it is, just shut your mouth and let your heart lead the way, ohh what do you say??". Whole, whole lot of truth in those words. People don't need answers in many circumstances.... They just need you... To be there, present, just listening to them, holding their hand, giving them a hug even though tears are steaming down your face while you do so. I remember being student in the ICU unit at a hospital in my hometown... A daughters mother passed away that afternoon... She came out of that room.. All I did was hug her and held that lady while she cried and cried.... That's all she needed. After several minutes she settled in and thanked me. It was tough. I did a walk around the ICU unit gathering myself back together, wiping away some tears myself. Reba's words are so true... What do you say at a moment like this, just close your mouth and let your heart lead the way. In that moment I knew in my heart all the lady needed was someone just to hold her...
_________________________
Nissan Altima 3.5 Coupe
Havoline Pro DS 5w30 Federated Auto 4612ex
"Treat your family like your friends and treat your friends like your family."

Top
#4713723 - 04/02/18 12:25 AM Re: When its your time its your time! [Re: Chris142]
fisher83 Offline


Registered: 01/26/12
Posts: 394
Loc: Omaha, NE USA
I had my best friend pass away at the age of 29 just 5 years ago and another good friend at the age of 34 just a couple of weeks ago. It has definitely made me think about my own mortality a bit. I try to have a good time and enjoy life and make memories with my kids and wife. You can eat healthy, jog 5 miles a day, and still die from some real obscure thing. Another guy I know was in his early thirties and had survived a motorcycle crash. He got his paperwork and was being released from the hospital. Leaned over to tie his shoe and dropped dead. Blood clot in the brain. He was in his early 30ís too.
_________________________
2015 Toyota RAV4 Limited 41k
2016 Nissan Frontier Pro-4x 18k

Top
#4713733 - 04/02/18 12:55 AM Re: When its your time its your time! [Re: Chris142]
SirTanon Offline


Registered: 06/23/14
Posts: 1983
Loc: Phoenix, Arizona - USA
All you can do is try to improve your odds of living longer, but you cannot guarantee it. None of us, not one, can say that they will definitely live past tomorrow. The best you can do is try to make the most of today and make plans for tomorrow and onward.

There's always another bridge, or another crazy person, or who-knows-what out there.. Rather than ask yourself why, or "when is it going to be me?", ask yourself "am I making the most of today?"

Love those you have in your life, and don't stress over everything.

That's my $0.02, at least.
_________________________
2010 Ford Fusion SE - 2.5 liter/6F35 Trans - 253,000mi
2014 Nissan Altima SL - 2.5 liter/CVT - 52,000mi

Top
#4713744 - 04/02/18 01:23 AM Re: When its your time its your time! [Re: Chris142]
02SE Offline


Registered: 12/30/05
Posts: 2563
Loc: The Canyons
Life is not a dress rehearsal..

Top
#4713763 - 04/02/18 02:45 AM Re: When its your time its your time! [Re: Chris142]
Shannow Offline


Registered: 12/12/02
Posts: 38990
Loc: 'Stralia

Top
#4713778 - 04/02/18 05:09 AM Re: When its your time its your time! [Re: Chris142]
OneEyeJack Offline


Registered: 09/14/10
Posts: 7399
Loc: S California
Life often comes down to doing one thing instead of another. There is no mystery here. Just imagine if you did not go out that night an did not meat that person that you married. Your life would be different, today.

When something bad happens you need to focus on a solution and not the problem. The problem is history and a solution is your future. You get to choose which one will be your focus. If you choose to live with the problems of your past you will soon wear out your welcome with those that can help you the most if given the chance. If you live for the future you will never have the door to love and help close to you.

I speak from experience having been diagnosed 10 years ago with cancer and told to get my affairs in order within the next few months. And I followed my own advice and never looked back.

Top
#4713808 - 04/02/18 06:09 AM Re: When its your time its your time! [Re: Chris142]
webfors Offline


Registered: 06/06/06
Posts: 4833
Loc: Great White North.. eh
wow, 37. That's young. Makes me wonder if I should be going to Muay Thai and Jui-Jitsu 6 times a week... but if I'm going to die I would prefer it be while throwing strikes and doing what I love.

Enjoy every moment gents. There is no guarantee you'll get another chance.
_________________________
17 Cadillac ATS 2.0T, Bulk D1G2 5w30, UPF64R
17 Dodge GC, VWB 5w30, Fram DL11665
15 DL650, RT6 5w40, Suzuki 16510-07j00
Small engines; RT5 10w30

Top
#4713833 - 04/02/18 06:57 AM Re: When its your time its your time! [Re: Chris142]
Cujet Offline


Registered: 02/15/03
Posts: 6976
Loc: Jupiter, Florida
As mentioned above, as we age, we "know" more and more dead people. In the last 6 months, I've lost 3 friends, including my closest friend. That hurt like crazy and I miss him every day.

I've lived to an older age than all my paternal ancestors 5 or 6 generations back. Does that mean I could perish any second? Or does that mean that my mothers DNA is superior?

My close friend that died, was a Boeing 787 senior captain for American Airlines, was at his ideal weight, exercised regularly, was exceptionally careful (near vegan) about what he consumed, never smoked and so on. Yet died suddenly of heart failure.

The fact is, when heart arterial plaque ruptures, a clot forms and blood flow is blocked, often leading to death. His was sudden and instant.

Many of us mistakenly "assume" that what we consume causes heart disease. That's not entirely so, nor does it change the risk of survival when a plaque rupture happens. Ancient Egyptian mummies (the ones with the heart still intact) had heart disease, seemingly at the same rate we do.


Edited by Cujet (04/02/18 07:06 AM)
_________________________

Top
#4713877 - 04/02/18 08:14 AM Re: When its your time its your time! [Re: Chris142]
john_pifer Offline


Registered: 07/08/12
Posts: 1806
Loc: Nashville, TN via Memphis
I'm a regular runner - usually a couple of shorter runs (4-5 mi) during the week, then at least one longer run of at least 10 miles (usually hills) on the weekend. In addition to that, I do push-ups, sit-ups and pull-ups, and some weights, about 3 times a week. I also cycle and mountain bike, and ride trails on my dirt bike. But I do eat a lot of stuff that's considered "bad" and has a lot of cholesterol (eggs, bacon, sausage, hamburgers, pizza, lots of dairy, butter, ice cream, fried stuff, etc.). Regardless, I stay at ideal weight (180) for my height (6'2") due to all the exercise. I can eat whatever I want and not gain anything. (I might gain a few lbs. after a couple of large meals, but it's right back off after the next longer run.) But I do think about all that cholesterol and wonder if my arteries are getting clogged. They say if your fire burns hot enough, you can eat anything and not worry; it'll just be burned off. But I'm not sure. Being from the South, I grew up on lots of butter, bread, fried food, BBQ, (stuff that tastes good, dangit!). It's hard to give that up. I will say, I do love vegetables and fruits, and eat a lot of those, too. I've also wondered if eating lots of brightly and darkly-colored veggies serves to counteract all the "bad" stuff. I think it does have an effect.

I do go to the doc at least once a year and have bloodwork done. So far nothing's been a red flag. HR, BP, cholesterol levels are always "in spec". I'm 38, so, we'll see if that changes.
_________________________
16 WRX - PPPP
07 Tacoma V6 - M1 EP 5W-30, Fram Ultra, 10K OCIs, 198K
07 Yamaha R1 - Rotella T6 5W-40, Bosch 3300
07 Yamaha YZ-250, Klotz, Rotella


Top
Page 1 of 3 1 2 3 >