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Do you hold grudges or let things go? #4627103
01/07/18 04:45 PM
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ZZman Offline OP
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I am a firm believer in letting things go. However I usually don't get really close to people which avoids me being hurt or greatly disappointed.

How about you all?


2003 Mercury Grand Marquis. PP HM 5w-30 and Fram Ultra
2008 Sebring Hardtop convertible. PP HM 5w-30 and Fram Ultra
2006 Kawasaki Vulcan 900 LT. Amsoil Metric 10w-40
Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman] #4627117
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DO YOU??


09' Camry LE, 141,020 miles

PP 5w30 and TG 4967
Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: 53' Stude] #4627121
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ZZman Offline OP
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Originally Posted By: car51
DO YOU??


See above answer


2003 Mercury Grand Marquis. PP HM 5w-30 and Fram Ultra
2008 Sebring Hardtop convertible. PP HM 5w-30 and Fram Ultra
2006 Kawasaki Vulcan 900 LT. Amsoil Metric 10w-40
Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman] #4627123
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Doíh. Brain [censored] there, sorry


09' Camry LE, 141,020 miles

PP 5w30 and TG 4967
Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: 53' Stude] #4627126
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ZZman Offline OP
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Originally Posted By: car51
Doíh. Brain [censored] there, sorry


Lol... Happens to us all


2003 Mercury Grand Marquis. PP HM 5w-30 and Fram Ultra
2008 Sebring Hardtop convertible. PP HM 5w-30 and Fram Ultra
2006 Kawasaki Vulcan 900 LT. Amsoil Metric 10w-40
Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman] #4627128
01/07/18 04:58 PM
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Lima, Ohio, USA
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I CAN carry a grudge, but only for 6 mos or so.


Mine:
09 Mercury Sable : 6qts AutoQuest(Meijer/Warren) 0w20, WIX 51516
Mine to Maintain:
03 Pontiac Vibe : 4.5qts VWB 5w30,WIX 51394
Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman] #4627136
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Depends.


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2016 Toyota Rav4
2012 Honda Ridgeline
2017 Arima Sea Ranger HT 21'
2017 Vespa Sprint S 150

Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman] #4627141
01/07/18 05:15 PM
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For some people like myself, it can go on for a long time.
Recently I realized (thanks to my holistic nutritionist spouse) it's due to my inability to process and release toxins. This ultimately is due to a bad liver from birth. I would dwell on problems/issues and in general, just be very immature with dealing with others.

It's actually very surprising and rewarding to know the root cause of my problem. Now I know what I can do to alleviate the symptoms AND the problem.


06 Lexus IS350- Wife
88 BMW 325is- Mistress
Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman] #4627149
01/07/18 05:21 PM
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It depends


2015 Ford F150 2.7
2018 Ford F350 6.2
Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman] #4627153
01/07/18 05:23 PM
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I used too. As I get older (40), LoL I realize life is too short.


2015 Tacoma 4.0L 60K (as of 02/23/18)
AMSOIL SS 0W30 / Toyota filter

2018 CRV 1.5L (as of 05/11/18)
Factory fill / Honda filter
Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman] #4627165
01/07/18 05:31 PM
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VA
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Thereís this book I have read that says if we donít forgive then we wonít be forgiven. Now thatís worth thinking about


'98 LEX LS400 280K
'00 LEX GS300 195K
'02 4Runner 225K
'05 Lex LS430 85K
'06 Toyota Highlander 145K
'09 Lex IS350 85K
'07 Lex GX470 60K
Amsoil in all engines, transmissions and differentials

Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman] #4627175
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New England
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The best revenge...is revenge.


1979 Coupe de Ville, 542 stroker, Super Tech 15W40, Purolator
2011 Crown Vic P71, 5W-20 NextGen, Motorcraft
Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman] #4627181
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North Carolina
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I think holding a grudge only hurts you. Takes too much thought and energy. I'd rather move on and enjoy life. Let the miserable be miserable, i'm going to be happy.


13 elantra 70k 5w30 QSUD
03 chevy avalanche79k synpwr 10w30
01 saturnsc1 185k synpwr rebuilt
17 mazda cx-5 5600 miles m1 0w30
Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman] #4627185
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I'm not going to hold a grudge. I didn't make the grudge, so I'm not going to hold it. If it's in my hands, I'll toss it straight in the trash can. The grudge can take care of itself. There's an old saying ... Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me, you can't get fooled again.


2017 Ford Fiesta 1.0T - Valvoline SynPower 5W-20, Motorcraft FL910S
1988 GMC K1500 4.3/700R4 - Supertech 15W-40, Fram TG3980
1986 Ford Ranger 2.0 - uhh
Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman] #4627191
01/07/18 05:55 PM
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The Midwest
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I'm Jewish, of course I let them go!


Wife: 15' Audi A4 quattro 6 speed manual
Me: 13' VW GTI 3 door 6 speed manual
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