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Do you hold grudges or let things go? #4627103
01/07/18 03:45 PM
01/07/18 03:45 PM
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Michigan
ZZman Offline OP
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I am a firm believer in letting things go. However I usually don't get really close to people which avoids me being hurt or greatly disappointed.

How about you all?


2003 Mercury Grand Marquis. PP HM 5w-30 and Fram Ultra
2008 Sebring Hardtop convertible. PP HM 5w-30 and Fram Ultra
2006 Kawasaki Vulcan 900 LT. Motul 7100 10w-40 and K&N
Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman] #4627117
01/07/18 03:53 PM
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In the shop
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In the shop
DO YOU??


09' Camry LE

ST 5w30 and TG 4386(filter on for second 5k run)
Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: 53' Stude] #4627121
01/07/18 03:54 PM
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Michigan
ZZman Offline OP
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Originally Posted By: car51
DO YOU??


See above answer


2003 Mercury Grand Marquis. PP HM 5w-30 and Fram Ultra
2008 Sebring Hardtop convertible. PP HM 5w-30 and Fram Ultra
2006 Kawasaki Vulcan 900 LT. Motul 7100 10w-40 and K&N
Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman] #4627123
01/07/18 03:55 PM
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In the shop
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In the shop
Doíh. Brain [censored] there, sorry


09' Camry LE

ST 5w30 and TG 4386(filter on for second 5k run)
Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: 53' Stude] #4627126
01/07/18 03:57 PM
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Michigan
ZZman Offline OP
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Originally Posted By: car51
Doíh. Brain [censored] there, sorry


Lol... Happens to us all


2003 Mercury Grand Marquis. PP HM 5w-30 and Fram Ultra
2008 Sebring Hardtop convertible. PP HM 5w-30 and Fram Ultra
2006 Kawasaki Vulcan 900 LT. Motul 7100 10w-40 and K&N
Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman] #4627128
01/07/18 03:58 PM
01/07/18 03:58 PM
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Lima, Ohio, USA
earlyre Online sleepy
earlyre  Online Sleepy
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Lima, Ohio, USA
I CAN carry a grudge, but only for 6 mos or so.


Mine:
09 Mercury Sable : 6qts AutoQuest(Meijer/Warren) 0w20, WIX 51516
Mine to Maintain:
03 Pontiac Vibe : 4.5qts VWB 5w30,WIX 51394
Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman] #4627136
01/07/18 04:05 PM
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Buckley, Wa.
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Buckley, Wa.
Depends.


2016 Honda Civic LX Coupe
2016 Toyota Rav4
2012 Honda Ridgeline
2017 Arima Sea Ranger HT 21'
2017 Vespa Sprint S 150

Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman] #4627141
01/07/18 04:15 PM
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Canada
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For some people like myself, it can go on for a long time.
Recently I realized (thanks to my holistic nutritionist spouse) it's due to my inability to process and release toxins. This ultimately is due to a bad liver from birth. I would dwell on problems/issues and in general, just be very immature with dealing with others.

It's actually very surprising and rewarding to know the root cause of my problem. Now I know what I can do to alleviate the symptoms AND the problem.


06 Lexus IS350- Wife
88 BMW 325is- Mistress
Say "no" to Turbo!
Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman] #4627149
01/07/18 04:21 PM
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Idaho
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Idaho
It depends


2015 Ford F150 2.7
2018 Ford F350 6.2
Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman] #4627153
01/07/18 04:23 PM
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North Texas
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I used too. As I get older (40), LoL I realize life is too short.


2015 Tacoma 4.0L 60K (as of 02/23/18)
AMSOIL SS 0W30 / Toyota filter

2018 CRV 1.5L (as of 05/11/18)
Factory fill / Honda filter
Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman] #4627165
01/07/18 04:31 PM
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VA
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VA
Thereís this book I have read that says if we donít forgive then we wonít be forgiven. Now thatís worth thinking about


'98 LEX LS400 280K
'02 4Runner 225K
'05 Lex LS430 85K
'06 Toyota Highlander 145K
'09 Lex IS350 85K
'07 Lex GX470 60K
Amsoil in all engines, transmissions and differentials

Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman] #4627175
01/07/18 04:40 PM
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New England
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New England
The best revenge...is revenge.


1979 Coupe de Ville, 542 stroker, winter storage frown
2011 Crown Vic P71, 5W-20 Super Tech, Super Tech
2011 Sportster 883, winter storage frown
Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman] #4627181
01/07/18 04:46 PM
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out there
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I think holding a grudge only hurts you. Takes too much thought and energy. I'd rather move on and enjoy life. Let the miserable be miserable, i'm going to be happy.


13 elantra 72k 5w30 QSUD
03 chevy avalanche 80k synpwr 5w30
17 mazda cx-5 7300 miles m1 0w30
Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman] #4627185
01/07/18 04:48 PM
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South Carolina
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South Carolina
I'm not going to hold a grudge. I didn't make the grudge, so I'm not going to hold it. If it's in my hands, I'll toss it straight in the trash can. The grudge can take care of itself. There's an old saying ... Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me, you can't get fooled again.


2017 Ford Fiesta 1.0T - Valvoline SynPower 5W-20, Motorcraft FL910S
1988 GMC K1500 4.3/700R4 - Supertech 15W-40, Fram TG3980
1986 Ford Ranger 2.0 - uhh
Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman] #4627191
01/07/18 04:55 PM
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The Midwest
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The Midwest
I'm Jewish, of course I let them go!


Wife: 15' Audi A4 quattro 6 speed manual
Me: 13' VW GTI 3 door 6 speed manual
Wanted: 2019 Ford Ranger
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