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#4627103 - 01/07/18 03:45 PM Do you hold grudges or let things go?
ZZman Offline


Registered: 03/17/08
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Loc: Michigan
I am a firm believer in letting things go. However I usually don't get really close to people which avoids me being hurt or greatly disappointed.

How about you all?
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#4627117 - 01/07/18 03:53 PM Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman]
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Registered: 03/12/15
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DO YOU??
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#4627121 - 01/07/18 03:54 PM Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: car51]
ZZman Offline


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Originally Posted By: car51
DO YOU??


See above answer
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#4627123 - 01/07/18 03:55 PM Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman]
car51 Offline


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Doíh. Brain [censored] there, sorry
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#4627126 - 01/07/18 03:57 PM Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: car51]
ZZman Offline


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Originally Posted By: car51
Doíh. Brain [censored] there, sorry


Lol... Happens to us all
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#4627128 - 01/07/18 03:58 PM Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman]
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I CAN carry a grudge, but only for 6 mos or so.
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#4627136 - 01/07/18 04:05 PM Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman]
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Registered: 10/05/08
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Depends.
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#4627141 - 01/07/18 04:15 PM Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman]
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Registered: 02/06/14
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For some people like myself, it can go on for a long time.
Recently I realized (thanks to my holistic nutritionist spouse) it's due to my inability to process and release toxins. This ultimately is due to a bad liver from birth. I would dwell on problems/issues and in general, just be very immature with dealing with others.

It's actually very surprising and rewarding to know the root cause of my problem. Now I know what I can do to alleviate the symptoms AND the problem.
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#4627149 - 01/07/18 04:21 PM Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman]
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Loc: Idaho
It depends
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#4627153 - 01/07/18 04:23 PM Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman]
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Registered: 06/12/05
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Loc: North Texas
I used too. As I get older (40), LoL I realize life is too short.
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#4627165 - 01/07/18 04:31 PM Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman]
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Registered: 09/18/02
Posts: 2154
Loc: VA
Thereís this book I have read that says if we donít forgive then we wonít be forgiven. Now thatís worth thinking about
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#4627175 - 01/07/18 04:40 PM Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman]
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The best revenge...is revenge.
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#4627181 - 01/07/18 04:46 PM Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman]
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Registered: 05/30/10
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Loc: North Carolina
I think holding a grudge only hurts you. Takes too much thought and energy. I'd rather move on and enjoy life. Let the miserable be miserable, i'm going to be happy.
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#4627185 - 01/07/18 04:48 PM Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman]
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Registered: 11/18/17
Posts: 683
Loc: South Carolina
I'm not going to hold a grudge. I didn't make the grudge, so I'm not going to hold it. If it's in my hands, I'll toss it straight in the trash can. The grudge can take care of itself. There's an old saying ... Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me, you can't get fooled again.
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#4627191 - 01/07/18 04:55 PM Re: Do you hold grudges or let things go? [Re: ZZman]
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I'm Jewish, of course I let them go!
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