It is so hard to pin down an exact number because even two engines of the same type might put out different wear metals depending on the person's driving style. I personally don't think filters are clogging up as fast as 3000 miles though, but I do believe the PureONE will clog up faster than most.
I am pretty sure the K&N would last quite a bit longer than the Mobil 1 before it fills up, simply because it doesn't filter down as small.
One area of concern is also with those filters that are horizontal and really need the antidrainback valves the most. If a filter is left on for a longer time period that antidrainback function might not be as effective anymore.
My plan with the cars in my "test fleet" is this. I will run the K&N filter on my 95 LT1 Firebird as high as 12k (the thing is HUGE!) and the filter on my wife's Honda (a 2000 Civic) should be good to about 9k. On my mom's car (94 Probe GT) I just installed fresh oil and a PureONE and will go one full year which should only be about 7 or 8k at most. I may change her filter partway through, depending on how her oil analysis results look ( I am sending them off this morning) On my sister's car (99 Civic) I'm going to be running an AC Delco filter, and I figure it should be good for 9-12k, especially since it is only really a 25-30 micron filter so it shouldn't fill up all that fast.