I'm replacing the upper control arms in my Accord. I know that you're supposed to tighten the bolts when the weight of the car is on the suspension. (I replaced them once before without doing that and they creaked terribly). But the new arms I bought has the bolts pre-tightened. I'm trying to loosen them but they're extremely tight. Are they pre-tightened for a reason? Should I just install them as-is? I don't want to do this again.