While you are developing a feel for the gauges, adjust for the lightest of drags at the target size, then try one thousandth over, it should be tight. Then try 1 thousands under, it should be completely loose.
It's also important that you have the gauge aligned with the gap, a little crooked makes it feel tighter than it is.
If it's a job that I am going to repeat I will buy a cheap feeler gauge set and take it apart and just use the gauges for the gaps I'm checking. Without the extra weight and bulk of the entire set and the holder it's easier to feel what you are doing.