July 18th,came home from work to find that the family had moved out during the day....no chance to represent myself to the kids...just gone, and an absolute disaster zone leftin their wake, including mcdonald's wrappers from their eating while moving, and kitty litter and cat-faeces on the floor where they took the litter trays. Since then...I've been erased, less than 20 hours contact with the kids over 5 occasions...no picking upphonecalls, and returning texts...zilch. rememerbed enough about me to make the child support claim (fair enough, they aremykids), but used the fact that I had provided "zero primary care" to benefit. Most interaction with my kids in the last month has been a bill, with their name on it...framed it, as it's another life milestone. Just a heads up gang, your life can change so quickly... Anyway, It's Movember in Oz, where guys grow a Mo and raise money for mens health...I've cleared the dial,and am growing a Mo to raise money for men's mental health. Have raised $545 (Oz dollars) in 4 days, so do have a wide range of supporters ($150 is pledged against me growing the goatee back, LOL). Anyone interested,I'll PM them the link (will approach the mods about posting the link directly).