Rob Taggs
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The whole thing has my stomach churning. Brother is mad because of me not calling to talk to mom. That one is my fault, just figure with no contact I don't have to see mom is such a bad state ( Very selfish on my part). Its just hard for me to deal with another parent passing away, my dad died when I was 16 years old.
My two siblings and I have never gotten along. Could say my brother was the favorite but, only due to his manipulation of my parents. He played the part of the good boy due to seeing me screwing up as a kid, thus my parents gravitated towards my brother. I was not a kid in trouble with the law or anything, just very stubborn towards my parents from time to time. I tended to be the focus of my parents since I did not do good in school but, did straighten up in college with nearly A's in every subject.
I can put the past in the past but, my two siblings can't. Brother called one night a few years back after mom had started another fued between my brother and I. Stated he was coming over to physically beat me up. My response was to tell him that he would just go away in handcuffs.
This was all over my mom telling him that I was supposed to mow her yard but, she had told me that my brother owed her money and that he could mow the yard (Nice family, huh!). Mom has been known to record our conversations and play them back to each of us when we came to visit. The kind when we were younger and immature saying things bad against one another. As you can see mom liked to pit us kids against one another. Mom was in the background with the conversation with my brother and I, the one where he threatened to beat me up and she was laughing! (Nutty Family!).
I think it all boils down to me being an honest person and my brother is not and he knows this and feels threatened.
My two siblings and I have never gotten along. Could say my brother was the favorite but, only due to his manipulation of my parents. He played the part of the good boy due to seeing me screwing up as a kid, thus my parents gravitated towards my brother. I was not a kid in trouble with the law or anything, just very stubborn towards my parents from time to time. I tended to be the focus of my parents since I did not do good in school but, did straighten up in college with nearly A's in every subject.
I can put the past in the past but, my two siblings can't. Brother called one night a few years back after mom had started another fued between my brother and I. Stated he was coming over to physically beat me up. My response was to tell him that he would just go away in handcuffs.
This was all over my mom telling him that I was supposed to mow her yard but, she had told me that my brother owed her money and that he could mow the yard (Nice family, huh!). Mom has been known to record our conversations and play them back to each of us when we came to visit. The kind when we were younger and immature saying things bad against one another. As you can see mom liked to pit us kids against one another. Mom was in the background with the conversation with my brother and I, the one where he threatened to beat me up and she was laughing! (Nutty Family!).
I think it all boils down to me being an honest person and my brother is not and he knows this and feels threatened.