As for the primary you can run about anything in there. I run the Motorcraft just because it keeps things real clean. And the clutch seems to be quieter. It has a lot detergents in the oil and little if any moly.I think any diesel rated oil would serve well in the primary. They seem to hold up better over time compared to Syn3. I change it out twice a year. Probably would not have to though.
Day and Night with the Shock Proof compared to the Syn3 not a lot of difference between Shock Proof and Mobil 1 Syn Gear Oil. Shock Proof shifting felt better and a bit quieter. I change it out twice a year also.
As for the Harley Syn3 oil. I change oil every 3000 miles. I do all my own work. My sample of this oil after a 3000 mile run was: It thinned to a 30 weight yikes. Others riders seem to like the oil. Maybe I just run to darn hard.
I find if amazing that a lot of the riders I know that really ride. 20,000 to 30,000 a year. Most change oil every 3000 miles and use conventional Harley 20w50. And there are a couple bikes in the HD Museum that have over 100,000 un touched miles.
They also used conventional 20w50 Harley Oil.
A few of the young guns who Buell's I have been tuning on have been using Amsoil with very good results. So one day I may try that.
There are a lot of good oils out there. Stick with what works for you. And remember. No matter who you ask what they use is the best.