Originally Posted By: dareo
I guess i will just let it go. Whatever wear takes place from the improper gear is better than an upset wife. At least she always shifts to 6th on freeways. Its just those 40-50 mph 4 lane stop light type roads that she lets it fly in 4th.
The Honda makes excellent torque down low, and 6th at 35 is like 1500+ rpm and will easily accelerate from there, even in 6th.
My golf has the shift indicators, it will tell me to go from 4th at 1750 rpm down to 5th gear at like 1400 rpm on flat ground. VW clearly doesn't think its lugging, but sometimes i do. It tells me to shift down only if i get down to like 1200 and request power.
Here is something to ponder. Is there enough film strength in the 0w20 to provide proper protection when accelerating from 1500 RPM in that Accord? (assuming you are using what Honda is recommending)
You're worrying about your wife's driving style causing extra wear, but you might be doing the same.
Personally I think that neither driving style will cause problems, but if one is OCD about wear, why single out one style and ignore the other, where from a purely technical point of view both can cause extra wear?