Update..................I think I got to the bottom of what was happening. Quick recap, the oil carryover problem seemed to coincide just as I did an OCI changing to Valvoline 4T syn 20w50 from Rotella 15w40, also at which time I also cleaned and oiled the K&N air filter. First attempt to fix was to install a Golan catch can so that the heads no longer vent to the breather. Seems to do its job however I still saw some oil residual in the breather, even though the heads no longer vented there! Some red (obviously K&N filter oil), some amber (presumably engine oil). Stumped.
Here's the weird part, and what looks to have solved the problem in my case. Each time I checked to see of I fixed the oil drool, I cleaned the air filter with simple green then re-oiled with the red K&N oil. I thought it was odd that the filter stayed pretty red even after washing and soaking multiple times. I figured the filter material must've been stained by the dye.
Finally, being frustrated and out of ideas, I bought some K&N filter cleaner and use that instead of the simple green. All of a sudden ALL of that old oil in the filter washed right out, my sink was running red, the filter was grayish. I'm sure the motor oil in there came out too. No idea why, but obviously the simple green won't cut the K&N oil, so essentially what I was doing was overloading the filter with oil thinking the previous batch was cleaned out with the simple green cleaning. I think what I was seeing in the breather, once the catch can was installed, was the filter releasing oil it had sopped up before, moreso once it got hot and flowed easier.
Since proper cleaning with K&N cleaner, and still using the catch can, no more problems whatsoever. As a bonus venting to the catch can rather than the breather even remedied a small stumbling problem at low rpm when cold issue. I think the catch can works and is worth it, but any previous oil in the filter has got to get cleaned out with something that actually works.
I guess sometime recommended products, such as K&N cleaner for K&N filters and oil, aren't just snake oil. I'm generally skeptical of that sort of thing, but in this case there was some truth to it.
Anyway, sorry for the long post, maybe it'll help someone.