Originally Posted By: sleddriver
As a first step, I'd suggest reading the book "What Color is Your Parachute?" and doing ALL OF THE EXERCISES.
A paradigm-shift may be in order as well. If you think it's too much work/boring/etc., ask yourself how many of your peers are doing this? Also remind yourself this is for your OWN personal development, not anyone elses. This is an investment into YOU. This isn't for some dumb test or grade or piece of paper either, it's about and for YOUR future. Thus you need to take an inventory...of yourself...find out what you have...what tools are in your toolbox. Start with what you have.
Another useful guide is the TAP manual. You can read it here.
TAP
Agree, it is rare that stuff will just fall into your lap when you "decide" on something.
You need to make a conscious effort and have a plan to a goal and a series of specific steps to get to that goal.
If you're not making these steps and just chatting on the internet, nothing is going to happen.
As far as the bill gates, zuckerberg, allen, abe lincoln, insert pro athlete here.
Sure you don't need a degree to be rich.
But that's a child's answer on why an 8year old doesn't want to go to school and fails practical logic.
Because a very few successful people didn't go to school doesn't mean the probability of success turns into a 50/50 coin flip because it's a binary yes/no outcome.
Unless you are gates, zuckerberg, etc, you better give yourself some fallback skills to increase your statistical odds of success.