I'm HIGHLY responsible and accountable and it's driving my crazy!!
54 years old, always been this way; nickname in the Engineering Dept. for over 20 years was "Eagle Scout".
See it, Own it, Do it. All my life. Never late for anything or anyone, not one single day on any bill, everything paid off. All things taken care of around the house. Cars ultra well taken care of. ON & ON....
The Teens are on their iPhones, & other small electronics ALL the time. Barely lift a finger. I ask they don't want to help.
I ask the Teens to help mow the lawn because my body hurts so bad, they say "not me", other one says nothing, then meltdown, start crying and play the victim card. BUT, then they go to an expensive Gym to expend their energy!
Many Adults are not responsible either. They avoid THEIR responsibilities, it comes to a head, and guess what: There's ME to drop all my plans, go bail them out and work my butt off because it "has" to be done.
I could never get away with 10% of all this growing up or adult life!
This is ongoing, examples are absolutely endless!!
What on Earth is going on??
54 years old, always been this way; nickname in the Engineering Dept. for over 20 years was "Eagle Scout".
See it, Own it, Do it. All my life. Never late for anything or anyone, not one single day on any bill, everything paid off. All things taken care of around the house. Cars ultra well taken care of. ON & ON....
The Teens are on their iPhones, & other small electronics ALL the time. Barely lift a finger. I ask they don't want to help.
I ask the Teens to help mow the lawn because my body hurts so bad, they say "not me", other one says nothing, then meltdown, start crying and play the victim card. BUT, then they go to an expensive Gym to expend their energy!
Many Adults are not responsible either. They avoid THEIR responsibilities, it comes to a head, and guess what: There's ME to drop all my plans, go bail them out and work my butt off because it "has" to be done.
I could never get away with 10% of all this growing up or adult life!
This is ongoing, examples are absolutely endless!!
What on Earth is going on??