HOAs run the gamut from modular trailers to condos to single family homes so you probably have to take the idea of someone telling you what to do in context.
In a condo setting, it might have much more to due with everyone towing a common line where not doing so would effect a greater number of people. There's likely not a lot of room for you to do "what you want" independent of the dues you're paying every month. If some jack a ss insists on parking in your deeded spot then there's some recourse and the association near me will put a boot on the car after two warnings...that's what should happen.
To some extent, it can be an urban versus rural mentality thing but if your biggest beef is the place where you live having CC&Rs and bylaws that don't allow specific behaviors then you just shouldn't live there...and not complain when you do these behaviors that ( as some do ) you actually AREN"T pi ssing off your neighbors and it's YOUR property. That doesn't take too much intelligence.
In a condo setting, it might have much more to due with everyone towing a common line where not doing so would effect a greater number of people. There's likely not a lot of room for you to do "what you want" independent of the dues you're paying every month. If some jack a ss insists on parking in your deeded spot then there's some recourse and the association near me will put a boot on the car after two warnings...that's what should happen.
To some extent, it can be an urban versus rural mentality thing but if your biggest beef is the place where you live having CC&Rs and bylaws that don't allow specific behaviors then you just shouldn't live there...and not complain when you do these behaviors that ( as some do ) you actually AREN"T pi ssing off your neighbors and it's YOUR property. That doesn't take too much intelligence.