I am one of the most cynical and sarcastic member here and have never stopped from dishing out when needed (or felt). I have given abuse and I have received abuse. I understand it and that makes BITOG what it is.
When he was here, it was OK to engage with him but without him being here and explicitly forbidden for him to be here, this is very childish and feels like ganging up on a middle school student or worse an episode of "Housewives of BITOG".