"About 20 months on this oil, mostly long trips and 1 track day"
Obviously "mostly long trips" shouldn't create fuel dilution on their own. I don't see one track day doing that much damage either.
I think you need to figure out if the tuning is over-done and needs readjusted, or something else is wrong with the engine. It's likely the former, but you shouldn't absolutely rule out the latter. Changing more frequently than 3000 seems like papering over the problem.
I suppose if you really like the tune and the engine is sound, you'll have to learn to live with fuel dilution, which from the wear numbers on the UOA, the oil and engine are, in fact, handling well. I don't know if racing oils are going to be any cheaper, but with the M1 you're getting a lot more TBN than you need for a 3k OCI.