Good question, and one that (for me ) has never really been answered.
I remember when coming to North America 70's I was amazed that the cars were running 10w-30. Normal oil in the UK at that time was 20w-50.
At the time I put it down to Americans not stressing their engines
(unlike the UK where people would drive a 1300cc car at 5k rpm for hours straight) and that the oil might be speced for the lowest possible temperatures (it gets far colder in North Dakota in winter than anywhere in the UK)
Also consider, my engine did not (originally) have valve seals, and some parts of the lubrication system, like that to the valve rockers, is down-right strange!
I guess I could run some 5w-20 in it, and see what happens, but I'd rather not.
I have to admit, even after being on this site for some years, at heart, I'm still a Thick Oil person.
If you hooked me up to a Polygraph when I pour 5w-20 into our Matrix, I bet you would detect a rise in my stress levels. ;-)