Originally Posted By: KD0AXS
Originally Posted By: salv
She was bored and/or interested in somebody else. Emphasis on somebody else. Maybe she wasn't cheating, but she wanted to.
He should let her go if he really wants to keep her. Sounds wrong, huh?
If he immediately stops talking to her and makes no effort to get her back, she will feel that he didn't really love her. She will start questioning and doubting herself, and voila, she will start trying to talk to him. As long as he remains distant and apathetic, while taking her calls and offering brief, emotionally neutral responses to texts, she will start trying again.
This I agree with.
Originally Posted By: salv
But, she'll dump him again after all is said and done.
He needs to find somebody else.
This, not so much.
About 10 years ago I met a nice girl on one of those cheesy dating websites. Things got serious pretty quickly, but a few months later she left because she was interested in someone else. (At least she was honest about it) A couple months later she realized she made the wrong decision. We've been married 2 1/2 years now.
Sounds like she settled.....
Originally Posted By: salv
She was bored and/or interested in somebody else. Emphasis on somebody else. Maybe she wasn't cheating, but she wanted to.
He should let her go if he really wants to keep her. Sounds wrong, huh?
If he immediately stops talking to her and makes no effort to get her back, she will feel that he didn't really love her. She will start questioning and doubting herself, and voila, she will start trying to talk to him. As long as he remains distant and apathetic, while taking her calls and offering brief, emotionally neutral responses to texts, she will start trying again.
This I agree with.
Originally Posted By: salv
But, she'll dump him again after all is said and done.
He needs to find somebody else.
This, not so much.
About 10 years ago I met a nice girl on one of those cheesy dating websites. Things got serious pretty quickly, but a few months later she left because she was interested in someone else. (At least she was honest about it) A couple months later she realized she made the wrong decision. We've been married 2 1/2 years now.
Sounds like she settled.....