Having done several dozen oil changes with canister filters on the two Volvos and the S600, I can offer the following:
The feel is nothing like a spin-on. I can do a spin-on by hand, gasket contact, good grip, and get 3/4 turn after gasket seated. Never had a leak or one come loose, though it takes a wrench to get them off.
The canister o-ring (on which I put a thin coat of fresh oil, just like a gasket on a spin-on) engages the sealing area several turns before the threads are tight. I can barely turn it by hand once the o-ring is engaged, so I accomplish those several complete turns with a wrench to seat it into the housing. The torque rise is rapid once the threads of the canister are fully engaged, it's a very small angular change from just turning canister to reach specified torque. So, seated and a tug should be about the same, but it takes a wrench to do it, and since I am using a wrench, why not a torque wrench?
Similar to a spin-on, getting a canister off takes more torque than installing it. I've seen at least one canister mauled with vise-grips, so I recommend getting a good quality wrench that fits well. I would not worry about the Corolla being hard to get off, that's the way they seem to be, but once loose, the canister is easy to remove by hand, I reckon because the o-ring has taken a set and offers less friction.