Which has been my position all along.
But being against no fault divorce doesn't get the congregation worked up like same-sex marriage.
The women's groups don't want it, because they want those women who are abused to be able to divorce their abuser without actually having to prove any grounds.
There are few who are in favor of getting rid of NFD for various pet reasons.
Originally Posted By: Mykl
Originally Posted By: javacontour
Let's try the link again:
http://www.adn.com/2012/06/24/2518581/most-of-the-time-wife-initiates.html
Since women file the majority of divorces, and it stands to reason they file when they perceive the advantage, more men than women file for divorce.
Frankly, I don't see how it's anything other than tragic when a faithful father loses primary custody of his child simply because his wife no longer wants to honor her vows.
But since fidelity is not considered due to No Fault Divorce laws, all it takes is for someone to say I no longer want to be married and there is a good chance she'll be walking away with your child.
Her failure to keep her vow is immaterial in court.
Yet we wonder why we see more people in society who think honor is an outdated concept.
As I've said before, you can't keep someone against his/her will. But why reward (or trust them) with the responsibility to raise a responsible, productive child when the means they are becoming a single parent is because they no longer want to be held to their vows simply because they don't feel like it.
We have too much "Follow your heart" and not enough "The heart is deceitful above all things."
It sounds like the real thing to be angry about are no-fault divoce laws.
I do tend to agree that more people need to take a step back and do a realistic evaluation of their relationship. Following your heart alone without seeking answers to very important questions that could give you some idea of how successful the marriage will be is asking for trouble.
I think one step in the right direction might be to incentivize pre-marital counseling.
But being against no fault divorce doesn't get the congregation worked up like same-sex marriage.
The women's groups don't want it, because they want those women who are abused to be able to divorce their abuser without actually having to prove any grounds.
There are few who are in favor of getting rid of NFD for various pet reasons.
Originally Posted By: Mykl
Originally Posted By: javacontour
Let's try the link again:
http://www.adn.com/2012/06/24/2518581/most-of-the-time-wife-initiates.html
Since women file the majority of divorces, and it stands to reason they file when they perceive the advantage, more men than women file for divorce.
Frankly, I don't see how it's anything other than tragic when a faithful father loses primary custody of his child simply because his wife no longer wants to honor her vows.
But since fidelity is not considered due to No Fault Divorce laws, all it takes is for someone to say I no longer want to be married and there is a good chance she'll be walking away with your child.
Her failure to keep her vow is immaterial in court.
Yet we wonder why we see more people in society who think honor is an outdated concept.
As I've said before, you can't keep someone against his/her will. But why reward (or trust them) with the responsibility to raise a responsible, productive child when the means they are becoming a single parent is because they no longer want to be held to their vows simply because they don't feel like it.
We have too much "Follow your heart" and not enough "The heart is deceitful above all things."
It sounds like the real thing to be angry about are no-fault divoce laws.
I do tend to agree that more people need to take a step back and do a realistic evaluation of their relationship. Following your heart alone without seeking answers to very important questions that could give you some idea of how successful the marriage will be is asking for trouble.
I think one step in the right direction might be to incentivize pre-marital counseling.