Originally Posted By: ArrestMeRedZ
9mm? That's like a bullet, only smaller, right?
The difference in stopping power between a .45 and a 9mm is significant. Anybody who tells you otherwise is ill informed. If I were restricted to concealed carry of a small weapon, I would consider a 9mm or .38 Special. Since this is a home defense weapon where weapon size doesn't matter, but bullet size does, I believe you'd be hard pressed to do better than a .45. Nothing wrong with a .357 mag, but I personally find them uncomfortable to shoot for long periods with full up rounds. Whatever you pick, make it something you enjoy shooting, so that practice is an enjoyable recreation, not a chore.
My 5 foot tall 125 lb wife (well, that's what she weighed last time we went shooting
) had no trouble with recoil of a .45 shot from a Colt Commander the first time she fired a pistol. I can shoot them all day without ill effect. I don't understand people who think they kick too much, but I suspect they are folks that either haven't fired them, or shot them out of a platform that was too small.
My #1 at ready home defense weapon is a .45 Colt Commander with Crimson Trace laser grips (don't have to worry about a sight picture in low light conditions). If I know something is up, and have time to get the shotgun out of the safe I'd use that. For some reason, I'm comfortable having an loaded Colt bedside, but not so much with a shotgun.
Too bad there is no such thing as stopping power.