You can put the alarm in valet mode and it will not arm at all, the alram won't work but you can keep the peace with your neighbors. I think the door lock/unlock feature still works when in valet mode too. It has been almost 20 years since I worked with Crimestopper but the valet procedure should be the same. Try this:
Under the dash, probably on the driver's side there should be a small red or black push-button switch. This is the valet switch.
To enter Valet Mode:
1. With the alarm disarmed, turn the ignition to the “ON” position.
2. Push and hold valet button for 2 seconds until the LED turns on solid. The LED wills remain on as long as the system is in
'valet mode'.
To exit Valet Mode:
1. To return to normal operation, turn the ignition 'on'.
2. Push and hold program/valet button for 2 seconds, The LED will turn off indicate the system are exiting the valet mode.
I agree with the Scotty. You may need a better quality alarm. If you like, visit
www.directed.com for info on Viper alarms and dealers in your area. Directed Electronics (DEI) alarms are the very best you can buy. If you just want to remove the alarm, a DEI dealer can do that for you too. If you want to do it yourself, remove the lower driver's side dash panel and everything should be right there. Cut all the wires for the alarm loose and tape up any exposed wire, the alarm unit itself should be installed under the dash with zip ties, cut them and remove the alarm and any shock or motion sensors. If the alarm has a starter kill, look at the ignition switch harness. I think your starter wire is black/white, about 12 gauge. It may be cut and have a starter kill relay installed on it. If so, cut the relay out and splice the black/white starter wire back together. The starter wire may also be black/yellow.
Let us know how it goes.