I've bought Never-Seez by the case of pint cans for the job for years...and Never-Seez nickel for high temperature studs (boiler superheater), Fel-Pro C5-A copper antiseize, MolyKote applied with a 2" paint brush on 6" diameter diesel engine tie rods, etc.
Most folks do it this way...if it's good to put a little on, it's better to put more on--the Moron Theory.
As addressed above, changing the conditions of any threaded part with a torque spec might be asking for trouble. The torque spec is determined by engineers considering the lube if any, the fastener material, the finish, the size, etc. We really don't care how tightly we twist a fastener (the torque), we actually care how firmly we clamp the parts together. Using the twisting force (torque) is just a convenient shorthand. Lubing the threads and seating surface of the fastener reduces the friction so there is more stretch before the specified twist is met. This might over-stretch the bolt. How much to reduce non-spec lube, like antiseize on lug nuts, is a guess...maybe 20% reduction is OK, maybe not enough?