Thanks guys. That's what I'm thinking eljefino - I checked my exhaust manifolds and the Orange Loctite RTV never burned off. Seems like it's holding up OK.
Re: Exhaust Manifold Flange
Willix, the high temp exhaust manifold gaskets can go on dry, but when the engine is removed on a stand, and I'm putting in new gaskets, there's no way I would risk installing them dry in case there was a slight irregularity. Nobody would remove the engine again to re-gasket it to get rid of an annoying putting sound.
RE: Cat Flange
I totally hear you on the resonator to CAT flange though, bending when tightening. It happened to me when I installed it to torque new. Problem was, I couldn't torque it down even with less torque without it bending slightly, and I can't just hand tighten it or the hex nuts could rattle loose.
I think the shop said, if they don't put the donut gasket in, they use the grey muffler cement. He said they didn't put in the Bosal donut. The grey cement is sandwiched in between the flanges, and alot squeezed out then dried.