I think the post above hits the major points.
In addition, remember its easier to cheat, and gain an unfair advantage, by altering fuel than it is motor oil. You can assume that every fuel trick has been attempted before NASCAR started regulating racing fuel. Today, teams line up at the pumps in the pit area to get fuel, and its all watched closely by NASCAR officials. Each fuel can is inspected and tagged with a decal prior to fueling to ensure each team is using a regulation can. It's very difficult to cheat by altering fuel if only because all your competitor's would be watching.
Regarding motor oil, the engine builders and the oil suppliers work closely to develop the proper oil used. Hendrick Motorsports is sponsored by Quaker State, a SOPUS company. You can bet Hendrick and SOPUS engineers have developed a specific oil for their engines. All the teams who use Hendrick engines use the oil specified by Hendrick. I guarantee you, it ain't Mobil One. I'm sure that's the same for RCR, Roush, JGR, etc.
As for, "official xxxxxx of NASCAR", that's a marketing/promotional issue more than anything else. I don't know how Mobil One can make the claims they do but that's probably described in the promotional contract between XOM and NASCAR.